Created by Mattie Zarena Whitfield, founder of She Manifest and The BeYOUtiful Collective, this podcast is part of a divine mission: to transmute trauma into truth, beauty into boldness, and silence into sovereign voice.
Expect deep stories, sacred affirmations, and soft invitations to heal.
Because beauty shouldn’t come with betrayal.
And silence is no longer our birthright.

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HOST: Mattie Zarena Whitfield Where beauty meets betrayal, sisterhood, and sacred healing. What happens when your beauty becomes a burden? When admiration turns into isolation—and the mirror reflects more pain than power? Too Pretty to Be Safe is an interview-style podcast where women of color share the untold stories of being judged, bullied, or betrayed simply for being beautiful. From whispered shade in the school hallways to corporate sabotage, from sisterhood wounds to family rejection—these conversations crack open what it really means to be seen... and still feel unsafe. But this isn’t just about pain. It’s about power. Each episode is a raw testimony, a healing mirror, and a permission slip to rise beyond survival.
Episodes
Friday Jul 18, 2025
Friday Jul 18, 2025
Join us as we explore how Black women entrepreneurs are reshaping industries and building lasting legacies, inspired by insights from Lawanda Terry. Discover how these visionary leaders move beyond narratives of struggle to create supportive ecosystems, drive authentic innovation, and empower future generations. This episode challenges conventional ideas of success and highlights the transformative power of honoring unique perspectives and building for legacy, not just profit.
Thursday Jul 17, 2025
Thursday Jul 17, 2025
Explore the transformative power of resilience in the face of loss with insights inspired by Trenna McCoy. This episode delves into authentic stories of overcoming adversity, the role of faith as an anchor during difficult times, and the importance of sharing your journey to inspire others. Discover how embracing vulnerability and community can turn setbacks into powerful tools for personal and collective growth.
Sunday Jul 13, 2025
Sunday Jul 13, 2025
Explore how truly transformative spaces refuse to make us choose between ambition and rest, challenge and safety. Inspired by insights from Tammy Greer, this episode dives into the power of environments that nurture growth and belonging, especially within Black professional communities. Discover why creating and seeking out spaces that both push us and protect us is essential for sustainable success and holistic wellbeing.
Sunday Jul 13, 2025
Sunday Jul 13, 2025
Discover how resilience can become your greatest leadership asset in this episode inspired by visionary Rodnisha Anderson. Explore the transformative power of overcoming adversity, the importance of community, and the impact of authentic leadership. Learn how challenges faced by Black professionals and entrepreneurs can be turned into unique strengths that drive innovation and lasting change. Join us as we rethink what true professional excellence means and how embracing every part of your identity can fuel both personal and industry-wide transformation.
Sunday Jul 13, 2025
Sunday Jul 13, 2025
Discover how intentional growth and honest conversations can transform your life and community. Inspired by insights from Alisha Kirkwood, this episode explores the courage it takes to update our emotional operating systems, embrace mature communication, and break cycles of avoidance. Learn practical ways to foster self-awareness, address difficult topics, and set a powerful example for those around you. Start your journey toward real change—one courageous conversation at a time.
Sunday Jul 13, 2025
Sunday Jul 13, 2025
Discover how Black entrepreneurs are transforming the business landscape by building powerful networks, practicing proactive resilience, and leveraging collective influence. Inspired by insights from Shai Wilson, this episode explores the new blueprint for success—where community-driven growth, strategic alliances, and visibility create lasting impact and economic transformation. Learn how to move beyond barriers and become part of a movement that’s rewriting the rules for generations to come.
Sunday Jul 13, 2025
Sunday Jul 13, 2025
Explore how beauty standards shape self-worth and professional success, especially for Black women. This episode unpacks the illusion of beauty as a social construct, shares transformative community stories, and offers actionable strategies to reclaim your value beyond appearance. Discover how embracing authenticity and redefining success can empower you to thrive in any space.
Thursday Jul 10, 2025
The Strategic Advantage of Difference: Inspired by Jessica Devereuax
Thursday Jul 10, 2025
Thursday Jul 10, 2025
Discover how embracing what makes you different can become your greatest professional asset. This episode explores the real business advantages of diversity, sharing powerful stories and insights on how unique perspectives drive innovation, better decision-making, and measurable success. Learn why true inclusion goes beyond representation and how leveraging your identity can open doors for you and your organization.

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If your beauty has ever felt like a bull’s-eye instead of a blessing—and you’re willing to unpack the shade, sabotage, and sacred healing that followed—then your voice belongs on Too Pretty to Be Safe. We’re gathering women of color ready to crack open the real stories behind admiration turned isolation, so listeners can transform pain into power together.
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