Created by Mattie Zarena Whitfield, founder of She Manifest and The BeYOUtiful Collective, this podcast is part of a divine mission: to transmute trauma into truth, beauty into boldness, and silence into sovereign voice.
Expect deep stories, sacred affirmations, and soft invitations to heal.
Because beauty shouldn’t come with betrayal.
And silence is no longer our birthright.

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HOST: Mattie Zarena Whitfield Where beauty meets betrayal, sisterhood, and sacred healing. What happens when your beauty becomes a burden? When admiration turns into isolation—and the mirror reflects more pain than power? Too Pretty to Be Safe is an interview-style podcast where women of color share the untold stories of being judged, bullied, or betrayed simply for being beautiful. From whispered shade in the school hallways to corporate sabotage, from sisterhood wounds to family rejection—these conversations crack open what it really means to be seen... and still feel unsafe. But this isn’t just about pain. It’s about power. Each episode is a raw testimony, a healing mirror, and a permission slip to rise beyond survival.
Episodes
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Explore how society’s obsession with beauty can become a form of control, especially for Black women. This episode unpacks the paradox of being both hyper-visible and invisible, the pressures of living up to impossible standards, and the difference between being desired and truly valued. Learn how reclaiming self-worth and demanding respect can transform the “beautiful prison” into a path toward genuine freedom and empowerment.
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Beyond the Applause: Divine Validation Over Public Approval Inspired by Rhonda Voltz
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
In this episode, we explore the journey from seeking external approval to embracing divine validation. Discover how letting go of societal scorecards and trusting your unique calling can lead to authentic success, fulfillment, and peace. Learn practical steps to break free from comparison, disappoint the right people, and find community rooted in purpose. If you’re ready to stop chasing applause and start living your true assignment, this conversation will inspire you to move forward with confidence and faith.
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
The Inner Revolution: Self-Worth, Healing, and Power Inspired by Brittney Byrd
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Discover how inner healing and self-worth can spark a revolution in your life and community. This episode explores the transformative power of prioritizing your mental and emotional well-being, challenging the myth that self-care is selfish. Learn why recognizing your inherent value is the foundation for authentic leadership, stronger boundaries, and lasting change. Start your journey toward healing and empowerment—because when you thrive, the world around you transforms.
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Explore the hidden epidemic of workplace bullying and its devastating impact on marginalized professionals, especially Black women. Inspired by insights from advocate Tammy Kerchner, this episode uncovers the realities behind microaggressions, exclusion, and systemic injustice in professional environments. Learn how performative diversity efforts fall short, why real accountability matters, and what true inclusion looks like. Discover actionable steps to challenge silence, demand transparency, and help build workplaces where everyone can thrive—not just survive.
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
The Invisible Price of Success: Suffering Through Smiles Inspired by Shawnnae Shomo
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Explore the hidden challenges behind visible achievements as we discuss the concept of "suffering through smiles"—the resilience required of Black women navigating professional spaces. Through stories of trailblazing leaders in tech and finance, this episode reveals the invisible labor behind success, the power of community, and the importance of authentic allyship. Discover how recognizing and addressing these unseen barriers can help create more equitable environments where everyone can thrive.
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Mental Health as a Business Advantage: Inspired by True Williams
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Discover how prioritizing mental health can become a strategic advantage for Black entrepreneurs and professionals. This episode explores the inseparable link between wellbeing and business success, featuring real-world case studies and actionable insights on overcoming systemic barriers, building supportive communities, and integrating self-care into your professional journey. Learn why sustainable achievement is built on a foundation of wellness and how you can fuel your legacy by making your wellbeing non-negotiable.
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
After the Storm: Rising Stronger Together Inspired by Lashawnda Lenaris
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
When life feels shattered by unexpected storms, finding strength can seem impossible. In this episode, we explore powerful lessons on resilience, authenticity, and the healing force of community. Discover how to honor your pain, embrace vulnerability, and lean on others as you rebuild after loss. Through heartfelt stories and practical wisdom, you'll be reminded that even in brokenness, there is beauty—and that together, we can rise stronger than before.
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Beyond the Mirror: Healing and Holistic Beauty Inspired by Angela Roberson
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Thursday Jul 24, 2025
Explore how true beauty goes beyond appearances in this powerful episode inspired by Angela Roberson. Discover the journey from beauty-related trauma to holistic healing and empowerment for women of color, and learn how redefining beauty can spark transformation and resilience.

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If your beauty has ever felt like a bull’s-eye instead of a blessing—and you’re willing to unpack the shade, sabotage, and sacred healing that followed—then your voice belongs on Too Pretty to Be Safe. We’re gathering women of color ready to crack open the real stories behind admiration turned isolation, so listeners can transform pain into power together.
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