Created by Mattie Zarena Whitfield, founder of She Manifest and The BeYOUtiful Collective, this podcast is part of a divine mission: to transmute trauma into truth, beauty into boldness, and silence into sovereign voice.
Expect deep stories, sacred affirmations, and soft invitations to heal.
Because beauty shouldn’t come with betrayal.
And silence is no longer our birthright.

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HOST: Mattie Zarena Whitfield Where beauty meets betrayal, sisterhood, and sacred healing. What happens when your beauty becomes a burden? When admiration turns into isolation—and the mirror reflects more pain than power? Too Pretty to Be Safe is an interview-style podcast where women of color share the untold stories of being judged, bullied, or betrayed simply for being beautiful. From whispered shade in the school hallways to corporate sabotage, from sisterhood wounds to family rejection—these conversations crack open what it really means to be seen... and still feel unsafe. But this isn’t just about pain. It’s about power. Each episode is a raw testimony, a healing mirror, and a permission slip to rise beyond survival.
Episodes
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
The Audacity of Choosing Yourself: Inspired by Pearl Clarke
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of self-love and personal boundaries, inspired by the wisdom of Pearl Clarke. Discover why choosing yourself is a revolutionary act, how to break free from environments that no longer serve you, and the importance of embracing your own story. Whether you’re learning to say no, investing in your growth, or taking bold steps toward your dreams, this conversation is a call to prioritize your worth and create space for your authentic self. Join us as we explore what it truly means to build your own table and inspire others to do the same.
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
In this episode, we explore the transformative power of reclaiming your narrative and the importance of questioning the stories others have written about you. Inspired by Crystal Greggs’ journey through manipulation and self-discovery, we discuss how evidence-based belief and resilience can help you break free from limiting labels and false assumptions. Learn how to challenge inherited narratives, demand proof for the stories that define you, and take ownership of your truth. This is your invitation to liberate your future and write your own story.
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
Healing from Community Hurt: Reclaiming Your Light Inspired by Sharena Griswold
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
Explore the journey of healing from community-inflicted wounds and reclaiming your light. This episode dives into the challenges of navigating beauty, belonging, and betrayal within our own circles, and offers empowering strategies to transform pain into purpose. Discover how to separate your self-worth from others’ projections, choose growth over bitterness, and become a source of acceptance for yourself and others. Tune in for inspiration on embracing your authenticity and shining unapologetically.
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
Shine Unapologetically: Embracing Radical Self-Worth Inspired by Ashlee Green
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
In this episode, we explore the journey to radical self-worth, inspired by insights from Ashlee Green. Discover how to recognize your inherent value beyond external validation, navigate the pressures of perfectionism, and reclaim your confidence in spaces that may not always affirm you. Learn the power of community, self-care, and radical self-trust as essential tools for thriving, and find actionable steps to shine unapologetically in your own life.
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
Saturday Jul 26, 2025
This episode confronts the often-overlooked crisis of domestic violence against Black women, exploring why their stories remain unheard and how systemic racism and sexism contribute to their vulnerability. Through the lens of real-life experiences and community-driven solutions, we examine the urgent need for culturally responsive support, the power of grassroots activism, and practical steps everyone can take to break the silence and support survivors. Join us as we shine a light on the invisible epidemic and discuss how connection and collective action can drive meaningful change.
Friday Jul 25, 2025
The Courage to Walk Away: Inspired by Jamesha Goodner
Friday Jul 25, 2025
Friday Jul 25, 2025
Discover the transformative power of letting go in this episode inspired by Jamesha Goodner. Explore why walking away from situations that no longer serve you is an act of courage, not defeat. Learn how prioritizing your well-being, setting boundaries, and finding supportive community can open the door to new beginnings and greater fulfillment. If you’ve ever struggled with leaving behind what drains you, this conversation will empower you to choose yourself and reclaim your peace.
Friday Jul 25, 2025
Friday Jul 25, 2025
After experiencing betrayal and setbacks, how do you find the strength to rise again? In this episode, we explore the transformative power of resilience through the story of Karen Porter, a Black woman entrepreneur who turned her wounds into wisdom and her pain into purpose. Discover how vulnerability, faith, and authentic storytelling can open doors, foster deep connections, and redefine what true strength looks like. If you’ve ever felt the weight of your gifts or struggled to reclaim your voice after heartbreak, this conversation will inspire you to embrace your story and step boldly into your power.
Friday Jul 25, 2025
Friday Jul 25, 2025
Explore how Black women entrepreneurs are leading a quiet revolution in business, overcoming systemic barriers and redefining what success looks like. Inspired by insights from Tanya Johnson, this episode uncovers the power of community, innovation, and creative funding strategies, and challenges us to rethink how we support and celebrate true entrepreneurial achievement. Discover how these trailblazers are not only building thriving businesses but also transforming their communities and the future of entrepreneurship for everyone.

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If your beauty has ever felt like a bull’s-eye instead of a blessing—and you’re willing to unpack the shade, sabotage, and sacred healing that followed—then your voice belongs on Too Pretty to Be Safe. We’re gathering women of color ready to crack open the real stories behind admiration turned isolation, so listeners can transform pain into power together.
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